5 Ways to Make And Keep a Friend

Being a friend and having a friend can be one of the most rewarding aspects of life. However, friendships aren’t always easy and like any relationship they require some effort. Here are 5 ways to make and keep a friend:

1.     Talk to and try to hang out with people who are in your classes or at work

(You probably see these individuals on a regular basis, so invite them to do something outside of work or class.)

2.     Join a club or group of people who share similar interests to you.

(It will be easier to make friends and converse with people who share similar values and passions.)

3.     Call, e-mail, or text your friends to hang out at least once a week if not more!

(It’s important to stay in touch with a friend so you can be a part of their life. Also, remember that they have other friends, so don’t be disappointed if they can’t always meet.)

4.     Be honest

(When someone asks for your opinion, tell him or her truthfully, but remember to be kind. Also, don’t lie. When you loose an individual’s trust it is very difficult to rebuild.)

5.     Be kind, supportive, and a good listener.

(It’s very important to be a helpful and caring friend. Sometimes it’s hard to understand what others may be going through. Regardless, a good friend listens and tries to understand as best as they can.)

- Emma Kate Wright, Intern
   Southeast Psych